Ronovan posed some interesting insights and questions (?) about women, some of which I have no response – though I did pick Hugh Jackman over David Beckham and Vince Diesel. Seriously, who wouldn’t? Don’t answer that!
So being ‘inspired’ by Ronovan’s humorous post, here are my all time questions about men… perplexed me for years and no satisfactory answer as yet 🙂
Here’s a challenge for you out there!
What is it with chasing white balls around all day? Golf, baseball …etc. Oh, please don’t say ‘we love team work’ cause then you can help me mow the lawn or cook!
What is it with watching other men chasing balls? Oh, let’s not forget the talking, yelling, shouting at the TV while at it!
What is it with long hair on a woman (picture this – said long hair gently blowing in the wind, or draped over… you get what I mean).
What is it about the need to feel competent at all times? Classic case of not asking for directions – guess men are never lost, always ‘I know we are heading in the general direction’? Or not asking where the dukkah (an Egyptian spice) is shelved, always ‘let’s just walk through each aisle, should be here somewhere!”
What is it about envy of other men in rock bands? Or worse, the emulation? Is it the guitar toting, or the front man allure,…what is it?
A man in a well-cut suit… how come few men get the ‘well-cut’ or the ‘suit’? And I am referring to those who could afford to do so but somehow don’t do it… Have they any idea what they’re missing?
Mateship… I get friendships and the close support friends provide. However, the back-slapping, awkward hugs, non-emotional interaction (unless alcohol is involved).. what’s with that? This could be a cultural (being an immigrant of South-East Asian origin) as well as a gender issue. Well, is it?
This just got a little serious… What is it with the refusal to be considered as ‘nice’, or for that matter, an outright acting out against ‘nice’? I know it’s a 4-letter word – a damn good one in my view – and so sexy done right. So, reason for the denial?
This is the big one… for me. What do men do with their emotionality? Where do they channel it? Men feel, I know they do, but many would be loathed to show it except for perhaps the acceptable trio of anger, humor and lust.
This leads from the previous one. Do men wish they could express their emotionality? In the context that we the people will not deride or mock it, that we do not think man is ‘wuss’ for owning and expressing feelings, that we actually respect and admire the courage and strength, that we know it is part of being human.
Do you, men out there, long for a more accepting world?
Phew, that’s done… I’m sure there are more questions out there (men are such complex creatures! *I can hear the protests already*) but this is the best I can do in the time I’ve got.