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On a door in a house…
Close up of some of the quotes:
So, what’s your initial reaction to the quotes?
Stop and then, what do you think of the messages?
What impression does the person who stuck these on the wall leave with you?
Wishing you good fun and joy,
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RonovanWrites’ Weekly Haiku Prompt Challenge #12 – Study, Creature
Women of the World
Intriguing sexy creatures
Worthy of study
Given that Ronovan’s post, “10 Things Men Think Women Think They MUST Know About Men” arose from a challenge of mine, I thought it best to briefly set the record straight.
So for a bit of fun (and perhaps some ‘truths’?), and substantially speaking for self (so grrlfriends, please pardon the appearance of my speaking for all of you). Actually, tell me what you think!
These are apparently what men think how women think about them:
#1 Men ignore women EVERY time women talk unless the word SEX is mentioned.
Well, men just have selective hearing, and yes, it’s a darn good excuse…for everything. Yeah, we know this too.
#2 Men like women wearing tight fitting clothing or see through clothing.
Only applies to men lacking sophistication and imagination. I for one know men also like the “now you see and now you don’t”, seductive and mysterious…
#3 Men are Cuddling Machines.
Don’t think that at all…but we can dream and hope… 🙂
#4 Men want to be examples of perfect health.
Qualification: when there’s a girl or girls to impress.
#5 Men want their foods perfectly organized on their plates . . . not touching.
Ok, admit this one… hey, does that mean women no longer need to prettily ‘present’ food for consumption …hoorah!
#6 Men don’t care about what softness of toilet tissue they end up with.
Oh, we know you care… but not enough to buy it…or replace it…?
#7 Men enjoy practical gifts for every gift occasion.
Well, we are thinking of toys but to support the flawed notion of masculinity, we refer to them as practical tools…
#8 Men always want monkey SEX
Aawww, really? I must have been asleep.
#9 Men ALL know how to fix cars.
We know that to be a fallacy.
#10 Men are all the jealous types.
We know that’s not the case; unless of course it is in relation to another subject which threatens them perhaps…?
Bonus: Men don’t know how to use the washing machine.
We know they do… but…mmmm, somehow the washing’s not done. Darn excuse, again?
Phew, needed to get that out 🙂
Postaday – On Bees and Efs
I have friends or good friends, but never a BFF – at least not one that resides solely in one person. In fact it is difficult for me to imagine any one person who could embody all aspects of what a ‘friend’ is, through the ages, through the moments and life events, who could appreciate who I am and accept without judgment what I do at all times, through all the changes in my life.
Do we have a right to expect this of anyone? Should negative judgment attach to anyone who is unable to fulfill this ‘job description’? I think not.
I have a close group of friends, who perhaps collectively knows everything there is to know about me (except for that part of me which I hold close – my secret life to which no one knows). Collectively, we share moments of hilarity and tears, we support each other through our pain and loss, we celebrate our lives.. and we speak of everyday mundane moments. We have created shared history which is a bedrock for the friendship years to come.
Yet each of them would know more than enough of me to be a very dear friend. Each of them would know one or more aspects of me in greater depth than the others. This phenomenon was not an intentional act to conceal parts of me from a friend. It is just that there is a friend with whom I am more comfortable confiding about the intricacies of my relationships, another with whom I share the highs and lows of my career, the other I speak to of the fears and hopes of parenting. Not any one is less important, not any one is less significant.
BFF means Best Friend Forever. Best friend – she who is somehow the best of the lot. Can you fathom that? I would not wish to pick, among my friends, who is best.
I have a fine group of women as friends who have stood by me, who have seen me through thick and thin, who have gently admonished me , picked me up, cheered me on, shared space with me in silence, kept me grounded.
I am blessed!
I have a big smile on my face… I know you can’t see it so I’m telling – so you can ‘hear’ my smiling voice when I say what I have to say.
The TV was on whilst I was cooking, when I heard this vibrant rhythm began – rather unique for this day and age. What, rock n roll? Of course, I checked it out and voila! the second surprise. The music video – which I have included below – has men and women dressed well, instead of dressed exposed. The most risque outfit might shock a 1950s audience, if that.
Besides the rhythm and melody, there is the song’s empowering lyrics:
You know I won’t be no stick figure silicone Barbie doll
So if that’s what you’re into then go ahead and move along
Then there is the dig at the media’s misrepresentation of women, creating a false and unachievable body image:
I see the magazines workin’ that Photoshop
We know that shit ain’t real
C’mon now, make it stop
Girls cannot be what they cannot see, and there has been a lot of music and music video depicting girls and women solely as sexual beings, looking like Barbie, playing supporting roles to men. Well, not this one.
The music genre may not be everyone’s ‘cup of tea’ but the message is loud and clear:
If you got beauty beauty, just raise ’em up
Cause every inch of you is perfect
From the bottom to the top
There is hope yet! So, watch the video of Meghan Trainor’s ‘All about That Bass’ for yourself 🙂